As Promised....
Here is the response to that back & forth of e-mails that I posted the other day:
I understand you being skeptical. I would be as well. There was no
trigger that made me decide to contact you. I just decided to contact you.
If there is a trigger, it is subconscious and I cannot put my finger on it.
Yes, you were the person I always talked to about my personal issues. By
the time they were starting, I had already gotten the impression that you
were no longer interested in us having a friendship. To be honest, I had
gotten the feeling that you had pulled away because I had gotten married
and was having a child so I didn't feel right talking to you about the
issues I was having. I did try to contact you several times through e-mail
to you personal address and got no response. I had also left you a couple
of messages at home not long after I got married and got no response.
It sounds to me like we both got the impression that the other was pulling
away and both got hurt. I am just trying to extend the olive branch. Like
I said before, if you have no interest in rebuilding a friendship, I will
understand. If we do try, I don't expect things to be the same off the bat
or ever. I don't blame you for being hesitant and not wanting to risk
opening up again to getting hurt. Just know that I am here and willing if
you decide you want to try.
So now it's up to me to decide.
Is it worth it to try to work with her?
I understand you being skeptical. I would be as well. There was no
trigger that made me decide to contact you. I just decided to contact you.
If there is a trigger, it is subconscious and I cannot put my finger on it.
Yes, you were the person I always talked to about my personal issues. By
the time they were starting, I had already gotten the impression that you
were no longer interested in us having a friendship. To be honest, I had
gotten the feeling that you had pulled away because I had gotten married
and was having a child so I didn't feel right talking to you about the
issues I was having. I did try to contact you several times through e-mail
to you personal address and got no response. I had also left you a couple
of messages at home not long after I got married and got no response.
It sounds to me like we both got the impression that the other was pulling
away and both got hurt. I am just trying to extend the olive branch. Like
I said before, if you have no interest in rebuilding a friendship, I will
understand. If we do try, I don't expect things to be the same off the bat
or ever. I don't blame you for being hesitant and not wanting to risk
opening up again to getting hurt. Just know that I am here and willing if
you decide you want to try.
So now it's up to me to decide.
Is it worth it to try to work with her?
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