Ready to talk....a little at least....
So, we had the St. Pat's party on Saturday.
And we busted our butts to get his house ready for the party.
And it started out as a good party.
Then things went down hill....
First one thing, then another, then another.....
I'm not quite ready to talk about the first bad thing to happen....still trying to work that whole mess out in my head....
But the others....
Well,
J's friend Sleezy was here and had decided off the bat to spend the night b/c he intended to get plastered.
J has another friend, PS, and she is known for getting drunk and acting flirty.
Well Sleezy, who's been married now for all of 6 months, was acting like he was going to jump PS's bones and was creeping both J and I out. J had to intervene and ended up putting her to bed in my craft room b/c she was too far gone to get herself home. Sleezy went to bed in the guest room shortly after. Just a bad scene all the way around.
To make things worse, the next day J told me that Sleezy was telling him his theory on sex while married. In his corrupt mind it's perfectly o.k. for him to have sex with whomever he'd like because it's just "getting off" and has nothing to do with love. He loves his wife and because of that he believes she'd be totally fine with him fucking someone else. Now, keep in mind he hasn't actually HAD this conversation with his wife - - - this is just his theory that he thinks he's 100% right about and doesn't have to discuss.
We went to their wedding.
I was trying not to toss my cookies at that event seeing as how I knew about all the cheating he'd done up to that point.
Now I don't know that I'll ever be able to look at him again.
J even said he had trouble looking at him on Sunday morning.
On Sunday PS left before we got up and Sleezy left shortly after J got up (I'd already been up and had to sit in uncomfortable silence with him).
Sleezy called J and "apologized" for his behavior.
We've yet to hear fromPS.
Whatever.
Things are just not good right now.
And I'm a bit of a mess after the event I'm not ready to divulge.
So if I don't post so much in the next little bit, it's just me being quiet and trying to deal...
And we busted our butts to get his house ready for the party.
And it started out as a good party.
Then things went down hill....
First one thing, then another, then another.....
I'm not quite ready to talk about the first bad thing to happen....still trying to work that whole mess out in my head....
But the others....
Well,
J's friend Sleezy was here and had decided off the bat to spend the night b/c he intended to get plastered.
J has another friend, PS, and she is known for getting drunk and acting flirty.
Well Sleezy, who's been married now for all of 6 months, was acting like he was going to jump PS's bones and was creeping both J and I out. J had to intervene and ended up putting her to bed in my craft room b/c she was too far gone to get herself home. Sleezy went to bed in the guest room shortly after. Just a bad scene all the way around.
To make things worse, the next day J told me that Sleezy was telling him his theory on sex while married. In his corrupt mind it's perfectly o.k. for him to have sex with whomever he'd like because it's just "getting off" and has nothing to do with love. He loves his wife and because of that he believes she'd be totally fine with him fucking someone else. Now, keep in mind he hasn't actually HAD this conversation with his wife - - - this is just his theory that he thinks he's 100% right about and doesn't have to discuss.
We went to their wedding.
I was trying not to toss my cookies at that event seeing as how I knew about all the cheating he'd done up to that point.
Now I don't know that I'll ever be able to look at him again.
J even said he had trouble looking at him on Sunday morning.
On Sunday PS left before we got up and Sleezy left shortly after J got up (I'd already been up and had to sit in uncomfortable silence with him).
Sleezy called J and "apologized" for his behavior.
We've yet to hear fromPS.
Whatever.
Things are just not good right now.
And I'm a bit of a mess after the event I'm not ready to divulge.
So if I don't post so much in the next little bit, it's just me being quiet and trying to deal...
posted by Sassy Southern Belle @ 6:34 AM
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